Overlook of being an independent

An Independent word seems to be so powerful, isn't it?

Let me tell you why it seems to be so strong word. We all know that in today's world all are looking for an independent life but are we?

I am not in real and like me, there are many who think that I am an independent but in reality, we are not. You might be thinking, on what ground she is saying Okie then let me give you a sense of thoughts.

I'll ask  Only one question which is required to answer honestly to yourself, Have you ever stepped out with a thought that no matter what? I will not hesitate to help a needy person in whatever case might be? Here comes an independent thought.

Most of the people might say what's a big deal in this we do help in some or the other way. But if you ask me I would say, No we don't.

you might be independent with financially, thoughts, living life and so on but not while implementation of human nature.  In today's world, we are required to think twice before we help others. Many of them might be agreeing with this that we need to think before we help especially in the case of helping the person who is suffering for life. What makes us stop then. Among us, there might be few who are truly meant to be called as an independent. Only if they fulfill the category of this ie is showering humanity nature without any hesitation I would say that person is to be called as an independent person who can take a decision on his or her own at any time without any hesitation.

I know it won't be understood if I don't give you sorts of brief explanations about the word independent. What does independent mean? Independent means free from outside control and not subject to another's authority, not depending on another for livelihood or substance, capable of thinking or acting for oneself.

Please note:  This article is suitable only for those who call them as independent but get hesitate to take a sudden action as and when required and still they call themselves as an independent after being known that they couldn't fulfill his or her wants due to some obstacles or pressure. Then you need to think once again to call you as an independent person.

Let me make it more clear to you all by giving my own example,

I always look at myself as an independent. I want to be independent but I am not. I am good enough to stand on my feet and live life on my terms. One thing which I lack is the courage though I might have sympathy towards that person, might have the desire to help him or her yet I won't be able to take a decision at the spot and like me there are many. This is where we are incomplete to call ourselves an independent. Where we need to stop ourselves and think for a while to help that person. I have observed many people don't come to help the person who has met with an accident or say got shoot by criminal etc and people look around them and start taking pictures but no one will come forth to help that person. I know it's not easy but it's not difficult too. To call yourselves as independent proudly then this hesitation has to vanish. Independent is not just meant for you. Independent must also give benefit to others.. The point is, To call yourself as independent add this quality as well only then the word independent gives an impact meaningfully.

Let us all add this one more quality to call ourselves as an independent. I'll be adding this to call myself as an independent woman. I hope you too .

Thank you...